5 Things No One Tells You About Planning A Wedding

By Fatime G

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The reality of putting together the big day hits most couples hard when they realize it is not always a bed of roses. Planning a wedding takes time and effort; quite frankly, it brings on a lot of stress, even with a planner. But isn’t it worth it? In the end, you will need help, and sometimes this means learning from other people’s mistakes and putting some wedding planning tricks to use. Here is a rundown of five things no one tells you about planning a wedding.

1. Time Flies

Allocate enough time to plan, which means getting the ball rolling on vendors, a venue, or ordering the dress. It may feel premature, but time flies and things happen. There are shipping delays, adjustments, and full bookings to consider; thus, start getting things checked off your list early.

2. Values

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When getting opinions from everyone, it is easy to lose your vision. But remember, this is your magical day, no one else’s. From the start, list what you and your fiancé want, and moving forward, use the list to make decisions for the big day. Bring forth these expectations with your vendors from the start, don’t wait until the last minute.

3. Detailed Budgeting Is Everything

Many people grow uncomfortable when talking about money. However, you must lay it all on the table during wedding planning. How much are you spending? Eliminate any gray areas; if someone other than the bride or groom is paying for something, let it be known who and the amount they are willing to spend.

4. Give Your Budget Wiggle Room

The most brutal truth for couples on a budget is that you will go over budget. Setting aside at least 5% of your budget to cater for items beyond the expected amount will give your budget some wiggle room in case something materializes. Think about it. If you decide you want to hire a videographer to capture the big day last minute, the money you set aside can cater for that.

5. Plan for Time Out

Whether you want something casual or a fancy ceremony, planning a wedding is hard work. Sure this is one of the most important days of your life, but that does not mean the planning will not wear you out. Take breaks from the planning now and then for date nights, host family dinners, or go for brunch with the girls to break the monotony of planning and reset.


Planning the most important day of your life does not have to be a dreadful process. There are plenty of ways to make it fun and memorable, starting with incorporating some of these tips. Come the magical day; when you see everything come to life, you will appreciate the planning just as you walk down the aisle to your other half. That said, happy planning!